Monday, March 17, 2014

a season of rest. and trust.

"Shepherd," asked Much-Afraid earnestly, "tell me why I nearly got into Pride's clutches again, and why Resentment, Bitterness, and Self-Pity have been able to pester me for so long in this dreadful way.  I did not call you before, because they never dared to come close to me or to make a real attack, but they have been lurking around all the time and making their horrible suggestions, and I couldn't get away from them.  Why was it?"

"I think," said the Shepherd gently, "that lately the way seemed a little easier and the sun shone, and you came to a place where you could rest.  You forgot for a while that you were my little handmaiden Acceptance-with-Joy and were beginning to tell yourself it really was time that I led you back to the mountains and up to the High Places.  When you wear the weed of impatience in your heart instead of the flower Acceptance-with-Joy, you will always find your enemies get an advantage over you."

Much-Afraid blushed.  She knew how right he was in his diagnosis.  It had been easier to accept the hard path and to be patient when the sea was grey and dull than now when the sun shone and everything else around looked bright and happy and satisfied.  She put her hand in the Shepherd's and said sorrowfully, "You are quite right.  I have been thinking that you are allowing me to follow this path too long and that you were forgetting your promise."  Then she added, looking steadfastly into his face, "But I do tell you now with my heart that you are my Shepherd whose voice I love to hear and obey, and that it is my joy to follow you.  You choose, my Lord, and I will obey."

The Shepherd stooped down and picked up a stone which was lying beside her feet and said smilingly, "Put this in your bag with the other stones as a memorial of this day when for the first time you saw Pride toppled over before you, and of your promise that you will wait patiently until I give you your heart's desire."

-Hinds Feet on High Places


A dear woman at our campus gave me her copy of this book to borrow over a year ago now.  This book reads my mail each time I happen to pick it up.  Thank You, Lord, for promises fulfilled in Your perfect timing, and please help me to embrace this season of rest...

Wednesday, March 12, 2014

prolific.

pro·lif·ic
prəˈlifik

adjective
1. (of a plant, animal, or person) producing much fruit or foliage or many offspring.
synonyms: productive, creative, inventive, fertile

2. present in large numbers or quantities; plentiful.
"mahogany was once prolific in the tropical forests"
synonyms: plentiful, abundant, bountiful, profuse, copious, luxuriant, rich, lush






Spending any free time that I can find getting my new blog up and running.

My heart is pondering verdant, what this long lasting winter means to me personally,

spiritually,

and when will new life appear to my eyes, ears, taste, touch and smell?

Wednesday, March 5, 2014

goal setting.

Hey all.
We are in the middle of a full and blessed week of daily house guests. I enjoy setting goals and staying productive at home, and this week those things have been set aside to enjoy face to face time, cups of coffee and walks through malls.  Today Grandpa Bob came to visit.  He and Noah delight in their time spent together and Asher couldn't stop smiling whenever he locked eyes with him.



After our sweet time together, both boys napped together.  These times are so precious to me, as are my morning hour or so before they are awake.  They help me press reset, to think through what needs to be thought through in the midst of a length of quiet - it's a rich and cherished time!

Today on my mind are my current goals.  Curious as to what they are?


  1. My goal for 2014 is to take one picture a day and record them on this app.  So far so good!
  2. I am aaaalmost done with decorating the boys' room.  My 'lanta, it has taken a while...  When it is finally done, I will post pictures right here! (below is the original inspiration, NOT their room :)
  3. I am working on my photography so that I can up my game for this blog.  I am intimidated to get this blog off the ground, particularly the areas of photography and the design/maneuvering with a blog. My hesitation has been met loving and talented friends/fam linking arms with me to raise the bar in my life!  I am working on photography with this resource weekly and this one as well. 
  4. My hubby and I have wanted to learn to sew for a while.  We got a Living Social deal to take a sewing class in a few weeks (yeah!) and I bought this online sewing class forever ago but I have yet to get back into it - I am almost passed all my projects to get to this point!  Ooooh, so excited...
  5. Right now I am studying the book of James!  It has been a week and a half and it is so incredibly full of challenges, wisdom, and depth.  I am going through this sermon series during the day.
  6. Lastly, I am super excited to observe Lent this year.  I was raised and still am a born-again Christian.  I have watched and heard about how Catholics observe Lent year after year and have always been a tad jealous.  Dictionary.com defines Lent this way: "The traditional purpose of Lent is the preparation of the believer through prayerpenancerepentance of sins, almsgivingatonement and self-denial. Its institutional purpose is heightened in the annual commemoration of Holy Week, marking the death, burial and resurrection of Jesus, which recalls the tradition and events of the New Testament beginning on Friday of Sorrows, further climaxing on Jesus' crucifixion on Good Friday, which ultimately culminates in the joyful celebration on Easter Sunday of the Resurrection of Jesus Christ."  I can totally dig that!  I tend to remember halfway through and think, "bummer!  Next year..."  I tend to be a start/end, give-it-my-all kinda person, so starting half way through doesn't seem as accomplishing to me or something.  Well, that year is finally this year.  Looking forward to daily partaking in this devotional

What goals are you working on right now?

Monday, March 3, 2014

My Beautiful Woman.


An unsung hero in all eyes, but she is a hero in the greatest way.  

"Religion that is pure and undefiled before God, the Father, is this: to visit orphans and widows in their affliction, and to keep oneself unstained from the world."
James 1:27

Oooooh, my heart...

Thursday, February 27, 2014

How I Write a Sermon - Pt. 2, Sculpting

I spoke this last week at our church’s MOPS group.  It reminded me how time consuming and what a process the developing of a sermon truly is.  Whether I am assigned a topic to speak on or I press hard into the Lord and spend time in prayer to discern what is on His heart for that day for that group of people, from the very beginning stages, it is simple a block of material without my touch and creativity in it yet. I compare it to sculpting.  It starts with a “blocked” assignment of time behind a microphone sometime in the future, and little by little the time leading up is a process of carving away until a more and more clear sculpture is presented.  The more time that is spent, the more detail is a result.  Wiki How explains Sculpting this way


Part 1 of 3: Building Your Base
1
Sketch your design. You should always draw out your design before you start. It doesn't have to be a good drawing, but it does need to give you a solid road-map for what you're going to do. Draw the sculpture from several different angles, so that you can understand how different areas meet up, the height at which different pieces need to be, actual scale, etc.
  • Sketching the sculpture to scale can be extremely useful. If it is very large, don't sweat it but if you can draw the sculpture to scale, do it.
This is similar to the SCORRE method that I referred to in the last post.

2
Build your armature. Armature is a fancy word sculptors use for "support structure". Think of your armature as your sculpture's bones. The armature is important, as it will keep the piece from becoming too delicate and easily broken.
  • Usually the armature is made from wire, the gauge of which will depend on the size of your sculpture. You can use other materials though, if your sculpture is small or wire is unavailable. Toothpicks can work, as can sticks. For larger sculptures, PVC pipe or plumping pipes can be useful.
  • Using your sketch, identify the main "pieces" of the sculpture. Look at the lines that define those pieces and how they connect to the other pieces. Again, imagine a skeleton. Form your armature to these lines.
Whenever a video, quote, story, Scripture or picture is discovered that I know I want to plug in, I hold onto it in a document that continuously grows.  I am not obligated to use any of those resources, but it helps bring the "life" and capture the attention of the listeners during the sermon.  If I weren't to log these, I know myself and they would get lost in memory and on the www.

3
Add your filler. The filler is a bit like the muscles of your sculpture. Generally it's made out of a cheap, light-weight, plentiful material. It's important because it will help you save on materials costs, as well as keep down the weight of your sculpture (making it less prone to breaking and easier to move).
  • Common filler materials include masking or painter's tape, tin foil, newspaper, or cheaper clay (not encouraged).
I have to know where I am going.  Though I have written my thesis and though through who my audience will be at this point, I need to take the time to start writing the points of the sermon.

Part 2 of 3: Forming Your Sculpture
1

Start with large sections. Once your armature and filler material are in place, you can start adding your sculpting material. 

This is when your content is lined up in your main points.

  1. 2
    Add smaller sections. Begin to more carefully define the shape of your sculpture. You should still be adding clay or other sculpting material at this point. These additions should, like the larger chunks, define the general shape of the sculpture, but cover the smaller areas.
This is when YOU would be added - what have you learned about this topic?  What is your interpretation of Scriptures that apply here?

  1. Sculpt finer details. With the basic form in place, you can begin to take your material away or shift it into place. This is the sculpting stage, in the traditional sense. Move and smooth larger pieces into their final shape, and begin to carve out smaller details (the angle of a cheek bone, the knuckles of a hand, etc).
    • For the previous two steps, you will largely be relying on your hands, unless your sculpture is very small. For this step, however, you may need to begin to use some tools. You can use sculpture tools or you can improvise tools. See the section below for a longer discussion of tools.
I love that this sub point says that you were using your own hands, now you use tools.  Here is where the list of jokes, stories, statistics, quotes, any outside resources are added in.  It ads credibility and some texture to your sermon to share what others have to say and stories to further your point.

Part 3 of 3: Texturing Your Sculpture
  1. 1
    Identify the necessary textures. Look over your sculpture and think about the different materials that would make up that object in real life (flesh, hair, fabric, stone, grass, fur, etc). On your original sketch or on an entirely new one, map out what textures go where.
    • Do some research. Look at lots of pictures of those types of textures to figure out how they work. You'd be surprised how complex it can be. Fur, for example, grows in chunks and you'll have to pay attention to the length, organization, and direction of every chunk.
Here is where research does come in.  What points don't have enough weight, meat or outside resources?  Jump online or into books or ask peers/mentors for insight into those topics that need to be further developed.

  1. 2
    Texture the areas. Begin to texture your sculpture, one section at a time, using traditional or improvised tools. Only a very limited number of sculpting tools are needed and most can be improvised from common household objects. You will have to experiment to find out what works best for you, as almost every sculptor uses their tools differently.
    • Generally with sculpting tools, large tips are used to create the broad details, while finer tips are used to create details. Scoop-like tools create rounded areas. Tools with a loop are used to scrape away the material. Anything with a sharp edge can be used to cut.
    • Tools can be improvised from: balls of tin foil, black peppercorn, toothpicks, x-acto knives, a toothbrush, a steel ball chain necklace, a comb, knitting needles, crochet hooks, large and small sewing needles, cookie cutters, melon ballers, etc.
Now you begin to talk out your teaching and what you have so far.  This stage ALWAYS results in scrapping chunks that I was committed to previously to hearing them from my own ears or launching me back into the previous step, into bulking up any areas that need more substance to be applicable to the listener.

  1. 3
    Cure your sculpture. Once you're done with all of the major clay work, you'll need to cure your sculpture to make it hard (if you want it hard...if not, ignore). Different clays need to be cured in different ways (air dry, bake, etc), so follow the manufacturer's instructions for the clay you use.
    • It is generally better to under-bake (use a low temperature for longer periods of time, if you can), to avoid burning.
This is when you practice, practice, practice.  For years, I thought the more I practiced the better.  The sub point makes me laugh in that speaking is like dancing - your body/mind may be able to go into "reciting" what you have practiced, but you have to not be so rigid in the end that you aren't able to feel the audience's responses in that moment or the Holy Spirit's guiding as well.


Through building, forming and texturizing your sermon, each step is important and necessary for an unforgettable and effective sermon.

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

How I Write a Sermon, Pt 1, SCORRE Method

When I was at Teen Mania, I took part in a program called the Fellowship of the Burning Hearts.  There were a group of 10 of us that were to read through the Bible as well as 30 other books, speak 18 times, critique 36 sermons and meet every other week as a group under the mentor-ship of Ron Luce.  We had other assignments, but these were the most substantial.  I set college aside during that time, because I knew that a communications degree wouldn't be giving me the tutelage that I was going to be receiving in this nearly one-on-one program.  It is one of the most fundamental and prolific experiences of my life to date.  I have known in the deepest part of me that I was called, designed and destined to be an orator for as long as I can remember.  In the 2nd or 3rd grade, my mom had signed me up to be in a speech class.  I can recall agreeing with her that it was a good idea, and thinking, "This will help build me to be a speaker, to prepare me for my calling."  I knew that it was a tangible way for what I was convinced that I was created to do.  I wish I could interact with my little 7-year-old self now!

It's been a while since I have written a teaching or a sermon.  In the past decade, I have spoken to groups ranging from a 10-person small group to a 1000-person auditorium, and my process, no matter the size of the group, has evolved into the same process.  The whole point of sharing something in a structured way with someone is so that they can 1 - understand it, 2 - remember it, and 3 - apply it.  I would encourage you the next time you hear a teaching or sermon to 1 - summarize the point of the teaching, 2 - decide the application that was encouraged, and 3 - think about whatever really hit home with you personally in that moment/hour/day that you heard the teaching.  Speakers have to work hard and it is a time-consuming process to develop one's assigned or personally decided topic to evolve that thought into an effective teaching.  Ken Davis, developer of the SCORRE system said "...75 percent of the people leave a presentation with no idea what the point of the message was. Even worse, 50 percent of speakers can’t identify the objective of their own talk."  He was a guest speaker on Michael Hyatt's blog and shared the power of effective preparation/presentation.

  1. Effective communicators know how to prepare a message with a singular and crystal clear focus.
    • If you know where you are going, you can take anyone with you.
    • If you aim at nothing, you will hit it every time.
  2. Effective communicators know how to read an audience and are able to customize their presentation to make that audience want to listen.
    • Until the audience is engaged, communication has not taken place.
    • An engaging presentation puts people on the edge of their seats.
  3. Effective communicators are passionate about their subject.
    • They pour every part of their being into the presentation.
    • If the subject is not worthy of your passion, it should be distributed in a memo.
  4. Effective communicators leave the audience no doubt about how to benefit from the objective of the talk.
    • They call people to action.
    • They make it easy to respond.
His method  is what I have used for every sermon/teaching to date since our time in the Fellowship program.  I am deeply grateful for its ability to help me hone in on what is assigned to me or on my heart to share and to make it accurately applicable.

Tuesday, February 18, 2014

Something Has Got to Give...

I've been a SAHM (Stay At Home Mom) for nine months now.  My 2nd baby boy arrived the day after my last day at work.  This was not the plan.  My first baby boy arrived 11 days after his due date (the latest one, at that - we were given three over the course of the pregnancy).  Because of this, I was expecting to at least see my due date (Mother's Day, May 12th, 2014) come this time around and go with a few days after that before Asher was born.  I was eager to settle in, make sure I was ready for the baby's arrival, and soak in the last week and a half or so that I had with my precious first-born.  I wanted to stare into his hazel eyes, stroke his baby-soft, light brown hair, and breath in the May-fresh air on walks with him outside.  I wanted to go on adventures, and snuggle, and nap, and laugh with him.  Ten hours after I clocked out for the final time, the pangs of labor began and seven hours after that I was (pretty literally) in shock that I was holding Asher in my arms.  It ended up, of course, being absolutely impeccable timing.

Asher is now nine-months-old and full of life and joy and motion.  Since his arrival we have moved, my husband has changed his vocation, we have changed church locations, and I have made several new mom friends.  We have started two side businesses (one didn't make it far off the ground and is now completely set aside while the other is in full swing), settled into and decorated nearly every room in the house, seen the holidays and several precious house guests come and go.  We are now facing Asher's one year birthday party and I can barely believe everything that the last year has held.

One thing that hits my heart daily is my relationship with the Lord.  When I was an undergraduate intern in the Honor Academy in east Texas, and even before that in Ohio as a high schooler, I voraciously poured my time in prayer, reading Christian-living style books, reading through the Bible annually, filling up journals like you wouldn't believe and trying to make a habit of reviewing notes from every class/sermon that I heard after hearing them.  I thrived on being a life-long learner.  As I was warned by the Director of the internship on so many years ago, my life would become more full than I could believe as life went on.  I swore he was wrong, that I was the busiest I could possibly be at the stage of my life, and I prided myself in that.  And, of course, I was the one that was totally and completely wrong.  Now I find myself "simply staying at home," and I can't find time to spend time with the Lord like I used to do?  How can this possibly be?  I find sometimes that what I presume others are thinking, or moreso what my heart actually thought myself previous to this season, is that I would have more flexibility.  Considering preschoolers need attention once every 4 minutes which is 210 times a day and I have a toddler and a baby, I guess that helps balance out that and keep my expectations in check.

Yesterday I had a face to face with my husband that, well, was not well received by me at all.  He was sharing his concern with my lack of time spent with the Lord.  He gently exposed my addiction to being busy, and pointed out some creative suggestions to try to start working the Main Thing back into my daily routine.  For hours I stewed.  Did he not know how desperately I wanted to do that daily?  Didn't he understand the amount of interruptions, how many plates I had to spin and how everything road on me?  Within the hour, I was faced with this article and this one as well.  I welcome you to join me on my continuing journey as I plug the Lord back into my daily routine.

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